Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Paraguay Part 1

This is an experience from Monday OCTOBER 28 - I cannot upload pictures at this time

The city of Cidad de Este sits on the Paraguayan side of the river that borders the southern Brazilin state of Parana. Across the “friendship bridge” into Brazil is the resort city of Foz do Inquacu, which is an international destination for their amazing waterfalls and recreational activities. I happen to arrive in Cidad de Este in time for their Monday night street mission. Every community in the Fraternity has a night that they venture into the streets and provide basic food to the poor. I knew where we would be going for at least one leg of the mission. When we arrived that morning Sister Magdalena pointed out the tarp villages as we walked from the bus station to the sisters’ house.

The week prior the order celebrated its twelfth anniversary and that modified their missions for the week.  I had been traveling around with three Americans from Kansas that I knew from the order. Kristin was in South America to teaching lace making for priests’ vestments, Bridget was a visiting nurse on vacation to help with her medical experience, and Sister Magdalena, my spiritual mother, is in charge of the house in Kansas City. For a week we traveled in Asuncion, the capitol city of Paraguay, to the exotic shopping quarters, to the sites of the city, and to the events of Fraternity’s festival. It was great to speak English, share experiences, and laugh at things that amuse Midwesterners, but in my Provencal American way, I felt the need to get back to work.

 I traveled overnight on a bus with Kristin and Sister, and we separated shortly after seeing the nature wonders of the fall of Inqusu. I was alone in new city with people I didn’t know. It was a good start.

I looked forward to the streets, and again was the only America.

 

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Brother Emanuel stopped the car in front of the large house of the sisters. The wide open brick courtyard was visible through the high rot iron fence and two gates stood in between brick pillars, one for a car and one for people. The order had been renting it for only a short time and construction materials were stacked in the yard a future project. The main entrance to the house was plain with no overhang, and I noticed a second crude entrance with a plywood door recessed across the courtyard.  This location of the house offered a central point walking distance from the areas where many of the indigenous native people lived. I discover that the secondary entrance was a kitchen and dining space for the meals they offered five days a week.

Inside the lay associates (legos) buzzed around making juice and bagging bread for the mission that night. I was blocked leaving the kitchen by Brother Junipero who introduced himself by singing me the start Aerosmith’s “Crazy”.  I joined in for a couple lines and he became very excited. He had many English phases and spoke in a high voice, pausing only to roll his eyes to remember the next group of words.  He exhausted his English and fluttered off as quickly as he came. Sister Veronica who is in charge of the house smiled at me when I noticed she was in the room. She had a soft wide face with light wrinkles of middle age, her eyes smiled with an understanding, and I felt her large presence that contrast to her tiny stature. I smiles and asked to help, she nodded to the things in a pile, and I took them to living room where everyone started to gather. I watched the teenagers, parents, and religious assemble with great energy, they had to be quieted from their conversations to pray for a successful mission.

 In South America when you are in a group ready to go anywhere there is certain madness. Things are shuffled about, side conversations in sue that have no bearing, points need to be made, and voices are raised; it could be a simple argument or a mass of people yelling to “vamos”!   

I had the pleasure of walking with a family who daughter spoke a little English. The girl was discerning religious life and was most likely still in high school. She would speak phases very well and then get nervous and browbeat herself in her native tongue for some small mistake.  Her mother spoke in Spanish and said she was very good at English, but was very shy. I complemented the girl in front of her mother, and she blushed and turned to her mother. But her mother face turned indifferent, “See, he thinks you are doing very well.”

We came quickly to the corner where the tent camp started, the tarp houses lined the ditches that separate the fields and roads, and we walked past the smudge pots and black figures siting in the dark. We didn’t stop and I was wondering if we were going to walk passed the whole row, but the street keep going and shelter crammed together never ended. In the distance I saw a gathering point lighted by headlights and an institutional looking building. The dark shadows closed the space and surround the parking area where a rolling speaker stood. The female formandos started singing a cute song about ducks and all the children came out of the crowd to quack and shake their tail feathers. I helped unload the bread from the cars and was directed to distribute bread to the now full parking lot, which was more long than wide. Sister Veronica danced a baby in her arms around the lighted parking and I felt a bit of peace that escaped me in the hurried assembly.  

“Two pieces of bread.” Said one of teenagers

“O que.” I understood.

“Two pieces.” She took out two pieces and showed me. The bread was hot dog buns and they had already been separated into twos. Her point was very clear

“Yes,” I nodded again as she handed me the bag.

A little girl not more than five walked up and stood in the front of the line and a number of people filed in behind her. The music stopped and the sisters lead the prayer in Guarani . They crossed themselves to Tuva, Ta’yra, Pytu Marangatu. Good luck with the pronunciation! It and Spanish are the official languages of Paraguay, but the “Indian” population is not educated, and does not go to school to learn either formally; it is a great block to their joining the main society. The prayer concluded.

In the pause before we started to handle out food, I could see how saturated with dirt the sons and daughters were. They had darker skin than their more European appearing countrymen and their facial features made me remember the artist drawings in history books for their ancestors the Aztec and the Inca.  Their dark features couldn’t hide the sores and cuts unwashed about their neck and face. There was blankness to all their eyes. The children looked as tired, as the adults. The adults were little more than teenagers, some of the girls held babies in their arms, and I was perplexed for a moment that the mix of ages didn’t include an older generations aside from the very old men.

“Ok,” the girl helping me pointed to start. “Only one piece for youngest ones.”

It made no sense to me, but handed the little girl one piece of bread.

Another girl stopped me. “You need to give out two pieces of bread per person.” She gave me a look of contempt that only a teenager can give.

I looked to make a case with the original girl who was helping me, but she was nowhere to be found.

The lines widened to a semi-circle, and the young men were pushing and shoving with their hands out and over the heads of the children. I ignored eye contact and refused the men to help the kids first, but that didn’t stop them. I felt a relief when the women and children were back in the middle of the parking lot and dancing with the sisters. It was the first time I had seen the discourteous throngs with little concern for anyone else. A boy came up and went to pull the sack of bread from my hand, a number of men still behind him; I jerked it back and went on giving out bread. We started to move on and the same bold boy came back and I handed the remainder to him; for all I know he may have wanted to take it to help his family or he was just that hunger.

 We came to another road in a more remote area, and still more lined the sides of the road. They reassembled the sound system and mostly children came running out to dance. Their smiles were bright and everyone was dancing. I even jointed in with the group of ducks in a circle. We reached a point in which we had no more bread and we ran out of plastic cups. The men seem older in this village and came over calmly with trash bags loaded with empty plastic soda bottles and proceeded to fill them with the juice. I looked about and couldn’t find a water source. No river, no facets, no bathrooms.

A boy of 8 or 9 climbed the formando in front of me and held out his hand to leap to me. I held him for a minute as he looked for another target and a walked over to the circle of older teens in our mission and only got within his jumping range; his body tensed and he bolted. After he found a hold, he scurried lizard like across them and hopped off into a full sprint.

I turned to my left to saw a red haired teenage girl smiled at me. She had freckles and I faintly recognized her from the sisters’ house. Her name was Teresu and she lived as an Aspirante with the religious to discern holy life.  There were four at the house and they all wore brown t shirts and long ankle length skirts.

“What are you doing here!? I was addressed in English in suspicious and harsh tone. The smile disappeared.

“That is a good question, I don’t know if I can answer that.” I spoke flippantly to her tone. I will confess I was punchy from not sleeping on the bus the night before.

“What do you do?” She seemed attacking.

“I do nothing.” I felt no need to explain, and from my brief reading of Kierkegaard I felt that a legitimate answer.

“No, why are you here?”

“Why are you here?” I deflected.

She became frustrated but paused and answer with a peaceful tone. “I am here to service Christ.”

“That is a good response; I am here to see you.”

“What?”

“You’re making and choice to serve a greater thing than yourself, that is one person choosing to serve something beyond themselves. Is it important what one does, where one is, and what one wants?  You said you want to service?

“Yes,” She looked inquisitive at me.

“That direction is what I see in everyone here. It changes things without the need for personal obligation. It is joy and ease. They wear it on their faces and give it away freely with no need to be somewhere else. One person is affected by one person. One soul is awaked by one soul.”   

The dancing and laughing continued and the crowd blurred into one happy whirl of motion.

“That is why I’m here, and that is what I wish to understand.”

She smiled looked at the dancing.

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